It’s the one that comes after my reply to, “Oh you’ve graduated college, now what?” And I answer, “I’m just going to focus on being a mom right now.”
It’s the question that annoys me more than the first. In fact it makes me mad. It’s always asked with that holier-than-thou-you-just-wasted-four-years-for-nothing tone in their voice and matching look on their face. It makes me want to scream and smack them and question their college education.
It’s the question that doesn’t actually require an answer. The one that calls my decision making skills into question. It makes people wonder why I even bothered going to college, why I wasted the money. It’s more of a statement that basically says I didn’t plan my life out properly with a friendly question mark on the end.